Tiny Living: 5 Things you need to know about tiny living
It’s been a year since we moved into our tiny apartment. The experience has been great but we were also forced to make some difficult decisions.
For instance, we had to find our pet, Max, a new home.
Max grew up to be a bigger dog than we expected and the balcony wasn’t enough room for him. We couldn’t bring him to the park as often as we wanted because the routes where he can pass weren’t easy. It was either one where there were too many dogs without leashes running around or the public road with very little sidewalk.
His howling also drove everyone in our building crazy, our landlady eventually asked us to let him go.
In the end, we found Max a suitable home with my parents and although he’s been said to be crying sometimes, we do get to visit him from time to time and he’s better off there than here, in the long run.
We won’t be owning any pets for a while. I can’t stand another heartbreak.
Before you transition to tiny living
Anyway, I’ve been meaning to talk about tiny living for some time. Yes,it has really eased some of our financial burdens, but there are things that you need to know before you start making decisions about transitioning to tiny living.
There’s really more to it than just cutting down the rent.
First of all, tiny living in Manila is so much different from those we see on TV.
For example, tiny living in the U.S. is pictured as a small house in a huge property or in amazing locations with great outdoors; whereas, the qualifier for tiny living in Manila is simply the size of your home. And it could mean living in an apartment building in the city like we do, so the dynamics are different.
(READ: Tiny Living: Moving our family of 5 into a tiny home)
Here are 5 things you need to know before you decide to go tiny living:
1. You have to be willing to let go of many things
One of the things we did when we went tiny living is to give away our furniture.
We lived in a much bigger house with a yard that allowed us to collect big, long and wide furniture and they had to go.
The huge dining table or our big, wooden couch with a pull-out bed will take up so much space in our new home, so as much as we love them, we had to give them to other families who can make better use of them.
We also had to sort through our clothes and kept only the ones that we use more often. I wanted to KonMari it, but that part needs some serious planning as well.
And just so you know, it’s harder to clean up a tiny home, so the less stuff you keep, the better. Whoever said it’s easier to maintain cleanliness in a tiny house has not lived in a tiny house!
Or maybe they don’t have kids.
2. Be ready to spend
Here’s the thing: If you intend to go tiny living for years, you have to make your place as livable as you can.
This may mean purchasing furniture to your taste and customised to the size of your new home.
In our case, since we had to give away our furniture, we had our dining set, our common clothes cabinet, and the kids’ double-decker bed custom-made. Jay built our large bookshelf and other things in our house by himself.
Going tiny living may also mean spending on a few home improvements. Our friends who live downstairs had a kitchen organization contraption of some sort installed in their kitchen.
You see, giving up space doesn’t mean giving up comfort or design. If you’re going to live in that tiny space for a long time, it better be the kind you want to go home to.
3. Location is important
It’s no secret that finances were involved when we went tiny living last year. We wanted to finish off our credit card debt and we wanted to jumpstart our financial investments which meant we had to cut down our cost of living. After much assessment, we realized that us moving to a place with lower rent was the only way to do it.
In case you are wondering, yes, there are homes for the same cost that are bigger but farther from our area. We had to consider location. The nearer we are to Jay’s workplace, the better. And where we live now, lower rent means smaller house.
We have three little boys and we need to be able to take them out to play as often as we can. Our apartment doesn’t have a playground or a swimming pool as condominium communities do, but we’re near parks, kiddie venues and malls, and we’re just 10-minutes away on foot from their MAPEH center, Jay’s workplace, and our church facility.
Our location serves us well.
If you’re moving to a tiny home just to cut down on costs, you might end up miserable if you don’t consider location carefully.
4. Consider the cost. Is it worth it?
To be perfectly honest, we’ve rented homes so much bigger than our tiny home for lower costs, but this was a newly-constructed apartment when we moved in. We are its first tenants.
And as I’ve said above, the malls, Jay’s workplace, our church facility, the park and many other family-centered places are so accessible where we are. So accessible that we walk everywhere. We seldom take a cab or the jeep to go anywhere.
And where all else fail, we have the best view of the city where we live.
5. The whole family has to be in on it 100%
Jay and I had been discussing the transition for months before he finally warmed up to the idea.
We also prepped the kids. We talked to them about the plan, what we were giving up and what we planned to do to replace some of the things they were enjoying in our old home.
We showed them videos and photos of tiny homes and prepared them for it. We asked them for their thoughts and talked them through.
We prayed as a family.
We anticipated the challenges ahead and prepared ourselves mentally, physically, and psychologically.
Of course, we realized that some of the things we thought we could do wasn’t going to happen – like invite my side of the family or some of our closest friends over, which is more of a parking problem than a tiny living problem.
But overall, it’s been a pleasant experience for us. I credit it to the preparation we’ve taken prior to the move.
My advise is -unless everyone’s sold out on the idea, don’t do it.
Life in a tiny home
The kids can’t run around in our tiny home nor can they use their scooter around like they used to, but we’ve adjusted well to our new space.
The key is to balance out the limitations with subsitution. We don’t have a yard so we take the kids to the park. We can’t put up our big rubber pool, so we take them swimming in other places.
The size of your space shouldn’t stop you from doing the things that you love.
I don’t mind doing my HIIT workouts in the space between our refrigerator and doorway to the kids’ room, and Jay strums his guitar on our balcony.
We homeschool, we do arts and crafts, we play board games, we watch movies, we have fun.
Life is slightly different in a smaller space, but as far as we are concerned, it’s still great.
I love tiny living!
I honestly like tiny living. I’ve read about your plan to move last year. My husband wants everything big, I want everything minimal. I think I have to wait til we get it together. Thanks for this, I now have an idea on what to prepare, just in case. =)
Nilyn (Above Precious Rubies)
This is something that I am considering doing (and still can’t decide up to now). We’re currently here in Rizal which is really far and costly when going to the Metro (or even in QC) and we’re thinking of moving near our church. And the only place I can find is the one with 1 bedroom which is really difficult as we’re a blended family of 6. I’m still praying for God’s wisdom, hope that my decision will be for the best.
I dont think we can ever do tiny. Damit at sapatos palang namin pamilya kulang ang isang aparador. I try to keep our stuffs at a minimum through regular purging (stuffs we have not use for a long time, things we have outgrown, etc.) but that is obviously not enough.
I agree with the whole family should be on agreement in making decisions such as this. We have been thinking about the daily commute we do as we reside in a different region versus our work place. Living in the metro entitles a lot of sacrifices and same goes with living outside the Metro. We have to decide as a family and make sure na if we compromise, we all are still comfortable with the decision.
We live in a small house, that’s how the kids describe our home. I love it as it’s easier to clean and we need not buy lots of appliances to fill in the spaces. This January, we will be moving in to my mom’s place and I told her I will convert my room into a small studio to accommodate our things. Our living space will definitely be smaller come January and I hope we will still enjoy the freedom. I still want to have our own kitchen that’s why.
Tiny living sounds fun especially if you want to cut down your expenses. And I agree that it is easier to clean and less electric consumption. I’m willing to move to a tiny place as long as it is ours na (since we live with our inlaws).
Kim @ Mom On Duty
We’ve been tiny living for a year in a one bedroom condo. We like that it’s located in the suburbs though so we get to go on walks and visit nearby nature attractions. But with the kids getting bigger, I feel like it’s time for us to move to a bigger place. Hoping to have our house built very soon!
We dabbled with the idea of tiny living a few years ago but with 3 kids getting bigger, a small house living is the way to go. We bought 2/3s smaller than our previous house with 3 bedrooms/1 bath, this is considered small by US standards. When the kids hit college, they can “rent” the house from us (the house is between all schools and university) and hubby and I will consider tiny living travels by then.
Jhie Alcantara Viñas
Its the best desicion you make. It is important to consider a lot of things. From letting go of your huge furnitures to having your whole family into it. It is a big change to all of you. It has a big adjustment. Letting go of your dog is really painful. But there are lots of great opportunities ahead.
Maliit lang din ang house namin pero medyo maluwag. ☺️ Very informative! Thanks for sharing this momsh. ☺️
I consider thing #1 the most mommy May. Since I started to have my own family, sinimulan na po namin magpundar. The rest are gifts. I can’t imagine letting go of our long table mommy na galing pa sa super bait ko na deceased mother-in-law. The rest of the things listed kailangan nga po i-consider talaga. Soon magmu-move din kami ng family ko. I’ll remember all of this. Thank you mommy May. Mahalaga po ‘to para sa amin na nagsisimula palang ?
Masarap na masaya kapag nag bukod kana. Mamimis mo pamilya mo pero kelangan tumayo kana din sa sarili mong paa. May away, tawanan, lungkot pero ito ang buhay. D mo malalaman lahat kung hindi mo susubukan. Ako subok ko na ilang years pero nangungupahan lang kami at ibat ibang bahay every year. Pero okay lang masaya naman akp. Lalo na kasama ko mga mahal ko sa buhay. Hanggat may buhay may pagasa
May De Jesus-Palacpac
Matagal na kaming bumukod. Nung kakakasal pa lang namin, tumira kami sa isang studio apartment. Ito ay Tiny Living, hindi tungkol sa pagbukod.
Jelho Cabtalan Sanchez
Sobrang Nakakatuwa po itong nabasa ko, Madami akong natutunan at mga kaalaman na nakuha. Napakaganda po ng communication ng inyong pamilya sa isa’t Isa at yan po ang nagpapatibay at nag papasaya sa inyo weather malaki o maliit ang bahay Basta po nagkakaintindihan ay nagiging masaya at magaan ang buhay.
Ang hirap po mag let go ng mga bagay bagay para sa akin pero nung nabasa ko po ito. Napaisip ako Bigla ,na dapat iconsider ko din Yung nararamdaman ng aking asawa’t anak mahilig ako mag stock ng mga bagay bagay na di naman masyadong nagagamit, kaya Ngayon po sisimulan ko na rin po mag let go at iayos pa ng mabuti ang mga bagay bagay salamat po sa inyong mga hint ideas para sa maliit na bahay pero magaan ang buhay??
May De Jesus-Palacpac
Sorry, I just saw this. Hindi naman magaan palagi, but we always say nga, kung hindi kami nag tiny living, hindi kami makakapagtravel as a family. Maraming hindi magagawa ang mga bata dahil masyadong mataas ang babayaran. Dahil mas maliit ang rent at convenient dahil nilalakad lang halos lahat ng kailangan namin puntahan, mas marami kaming nagagawa.
Maria Cristina Sadicon
Thank you for the advice fully housewife sometimes mas maganda po ang tiny living kesa SA malaking pamumuhay.Tatandaan ko po ang 5 things before moving in tiny living.God bless you and your family always.
Its a big decision,first ang foremost but ,be ready for the consequences,we actually experience it ❤️,it’s all about family adaptation within the house ,and the environment