Parenting and home schooling

Boys in Ballet

I remember watching a bunch of teens perform in church several years ago. They were all wonderful dancers and we enjoyed their routine very much. However, in about 8-12 kids, one was a head above the rest in terms of technique. I knew right then and there that this one had years of training up his belt, and quite possibly, in ballet.  I was right.

That’s the thing about dance. If you look hard enough, you’ll be able to distinguish between the good dancers from the trained ones. Training brings out the best in every dancer and ballet is dance’s strongest foundation. It addresses form, lines, and technique that no other dance will, and it can supplement any form of dancing.


As a child, my first dream was to be a dancer. My father, though, did not approve of me taking ballet lessons which is ironic because his mother was a professional ballet dancer. As a father, his heart was to protect me thinking that a female dancer is made vulnerable when dancing with partners.

I managed to get into a few dance classes, eventually, but they were not enough to make a professional dancer out of me.

Going back to my grandmother, it’s unfortunate that I have never really met her because she passed when my father was only a five month old baby. But for what it’s worth, if any of my children end up dancing ballet as a profession, I credit her (and thank her profusely!) for the genes.

Ballet is for boys, too!

My boys didn’t wake up wanting to dance ballet. I find it strange sometimes that TV shows often show female ballet dancers, so my kids had a preconceived idea that ballet is only for girls and they can only do hip hop and break dancing.

What I did was show them videos of boys dancing ballet and talked to them about how it is not just for girls.

I even had the opportunity to take all three of them to see Ballet Manila’s Ballet & Ballads at Aliw Theater which showcased both classical and contemporary ballet performances. Lukas and Judah were trying to imitate the leaps and turns at the lobby and almost hit the people passing by during the intermission, haha!

Ballet is theater. They tell stories of life, and in life there are men. Who would better take on the roles of men but men, right?

Personally, I want my children to see that there are endless possibilities for professions, even for Creatives. Jay and I fall under that category, so the idea that one, two or all of our children would be, too, is kind of a given.

So when I asked my kids if they would be interested to try ballet and they said “yes,” I went searching for a school they can train at.

Because that’s what mothers do, right? (there’s a wink here, hehe!)

Boys don’t dance in tutus

Boys don’t dance in tutus. They need to be strong. Girls in ballet are great. They’re beautiful and graceful. Like lovely swans. But men bring something else to the table that girls don’t.

If you’re having any doubts about boys having a place in ballet, watching this video would help you understand.

Ballet Assessment

Last April 7, I took all of my three kids to the main branch of Twinkle Toes Ballet and Music Academy in Fairview, Quezon City to get assessed and for them to try out their ballet classes.

Their regular classes will be closer to home, though, we were only there for the assessment. Twinkle Toes has branches in UP Technohub, Las Pinas, Sucat, Congressional avenue, BGC, McKinley Hill, Brentwood and Panay, aside from their main branch in Fairview and one at SM Fairview mall.

My kids are joining the classes in BGC area.

My kids in their ballet uniforms.

There were 4 new boys at the assessment. They joined the Classical first where they were introduced to some of ballet’s basic steps. I peeked through the glass door to see how they were doing and they seemed to be doing fine.

I was only worried about Judah because he might start running around and disrupting the class; but the first hour went by so well, and although he couldn’t stand still while their line was waiting for their turn, he was following Teacher Nordic’s instructions.

The second class was a different story, though. Teacher Nordic gave them a short break and the kids had no snacks, so I had to run off to the nearest store to get some for them. When I got back, Judah was crying under a chair in the studio. Break time had ended.

I had to go in and coax him out and feed him first before he happily ran back to join the other kids.

Lukas, on the other hand, got a little distracted with his hair when he came closer to the mirror. Teacher Nordic had to tell him to stop fixing it, hahaha! He’s a little obsessed with looking guwapo with his hair nowadays and a little talk on vanity is in order haha!

The Verdict

Ms. Cherrie Umbalin, Artistic Director of Twinkle Toes, said that the coach’s feedback on the boys was that they’re okay and said that Judah’s playfulness is still okay, considering his age.  She said that the boys can now start attending the ballet classes in our area.

Their teacher is going to be Teacher Tara Leach of San Francisco Ballet and Philippine Ballet Theater.

I told the boys the happy news and they’re quite excited.

In fact, I told them last night that they need to wake up early today so they can eat before preparing to go to their first class at 11 AM. The two little ones were awake at 6 AM! I had to send them back to bed and told them I’ll wake them up at 8 AM instead.

About Twinkle Toes Ballet and Music Academy

Let me tell you a bit of information on Twinkle Toes Ballet and Music Academy.

Twinkle Toes have received distinction gold medals during the Australian Conservatoire Ballet Examinations, giving their students the opportunity to receive scholarships to Melbourne, Australia.

Every year, an examiner from Australia come to the Philippines to conduct examinations on the students. The Syllabus of the Australian Conservatoire is based on Russian Vaganova.

Twinkle Toes has also won awards and medals in prestigious dance competitions, such as the Philippine Dance Competition and ABAP Ballet Competition (Association of Ballet Academies in the Philippines) where their students won first and second place trophies.

Just recently, their students won at Dance Star Philippines final qualifying rounds and will soon be flying to Croatia to compete against representatives from different countries.

One of their students, a 12-year old, is the youngest to have been accepted to join professional ballerinas in Philippine Ballet Theater’s Nutcracker Ballet at the Cultural Center of the Philippines. Only 6 out of 16 got through the grueling auditions and most of them were so much older.

There were also other young students who made it into the company’s other shows.

Twinkle Toes Ballet and Music Academy hold performances at some of the country’s biggest venues – at the Cultural Center of the Philippines, Star Theater and the Meralco Theater.

Our boys missed the students’ performances at CCP, Blue Leaf McKinley and Concert at the Park this year, having enrolled only now, but I’m looking forward to them joining the grand recital this coming June at the Meralco Theater and perhaps the Ballet Show ABAP Danseries at Solaire Theatre in November.


Tuition fees and other inquiries

According to Teacher Cherrie, “The Regular Quarterly Tuition Fee is P10000 for 20 sessions plus P500 pesos annual registration fee. This is good for 2 months for Summer Enrollees, 2x a week Program for Summer.  You can get 4 FREE Sessions of Ballet of you avail 20 sessions promo if you enroll til March 24. You may use this at a later date.”

Aside from Classical and Contemporary Ballet, Twinkle Toes also offer classes in Taekwondo, Arts, Mom & Baby Ballet, Piano, Voice and Musical Theater classes.

If you’re interested, please contact them at 2117898 or txt 09175460515 or send a message through their official Facebook page.

See you at the ballet!

Update: Our kids have withdrawn from their scholarship at Twinkle Toes Ballet & Music Academy but maintains a good relationship with the academy. Our kids are currently training at the CCP Dance Workshop.


  • Michi

    I’m one of those few people who think that ballet is for girls. I don’t have a gift for dancing so ballet did not cross my mind when I was young. I don’t like MAPEH class too because I need to dance for grade. hehehe!

    • May De Jesus-Palacpac

      Awww. That’s how I felt about class presentations and group work, especially the lab part ones. Hated them.

  • Nilyn

    I look forward to more posts about them doing ballet. Ang cute lang coz, first of all, they’re boys which are uncommon in ballet, secondly, I love that they’re enjoying doing this together. I bet these three are going to be super close and bonded growing up.

    • May De Jesus-Palacpac

      It’s only more uncommon here partly because it’s a cultural thing. In Russia, boys see ballet as strength training. But I’m glad my kids are homeschoolers so they are more open to try and appreciate many other forms of art.

      And yes to growing up close. They do do things together a lot – like playing with their toys, gadgets, cooking, learn painting, sing together and now, dance together. Hopefully, in the future, they will do shows together. But we’ll see. it still depends on what they will really want to do in the future.

  • Gilian Isles-Cebu

    I love ballet. I used to dance and teach it (unprofessionally) haha

    I had in my group teenage boys who were good at dancing hip hop, modern dance, etc. but after training them for ballet, only then will you see the difference in moves. It makes such a HUGE difference when you put them side by side with dancers who did not do ballet. The form, the details, the angles, the projection, the moves…it’s just different. I even want to require every modern dancer to have a ballet foundation, at least the basics.

    So if your boys are planning to go to theater, it is really a good idea that you let them do ballet. It will make a great difference once they are on stage. =) very distinct.

    My eldest son likes dancing and I can see he is willing to try this as well, I’m trying to time it until he’s ready and conditioned for all the things he will hear about boys in ballet. It’s sad, right? Boys can do ballet, too!!! hahaha

    Suggested movie for your boys: CENTER STAGE =) Just cut the sensual part, but the boys who danced here were amazing!!! What every boy in ballet would love to achieve. I’m pretty sure they will immediately try to copy the moves. Love that movie. =))

  • Edel

    I remember attending ballet class ages ago but since ballet schools are not that accessible before compared to now, I didn’t pursue it. Anyways, its nice if your boys will really pursue ballet since it runs in the blood. Enrolled my daughter in ballet class for 2 sems but gave up eventually since she enjoyed her gymnastic class more. Looking forward to seeing your boys dance on stage in the future.

    • May De Jesus-Palacpac

      They actually wanted gymnastics at first, but I was told it would hamper their growth development. And at this point in time, we don’t want that. We don’t have very tall genes, haha! Anyway, they are starting to love this dance.

  • EINz

    Little girls on their tutus looks very adorable! My reason, I think for pushing my daughter into ballet. Unfortunately, she seems not interested at all. It is good that your boys find it interesting and seems enjoying the ballet class. My kids are into sports instead.

    • May De Jesus-Palacpac

      Contrary to what people think, ballet is both art and sport. Men in ballet must jump and do impossible things in the air, must be strong to lift women, must execute stunts with precision and be agile and swift. My boys have been dancing for 6 years now. 🙂

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